Why So Many Guys Have So Many Problem Dating A Woman Born With Harry Benjamin Syndrome?
Harry Benjamin Syndrome:http://shb-info.org/hbs.html
Why so many guys have so many problem dating a woman born with this condition even when the woman had completely corrected it with surgery?
I’m going to go out on a limb and say that heterosexual men are going to have trouble getting close to a woman who identifies with being a man more than with being a woman. I think that’s probably going to be true for heterosexual women as well, if the scenario is reversed.
The only thing you can do is be up front about it.
just dont tell them about it. dont let them know that u have that condition. i know itss a little dishonest, but in all honesty i think its your only shot. maybe after you have been wiith someone for a year or so and you are %100 positive that they are in love with you, then tell them.
Because they wrongly associate it with homosexuality and transgenderism.
Here are some steps to reverse this:
1. Make it clear to society that HBS is not a part of the LGBT. Having persons with HBS publicly denounding things related to LGBTs should help.
2. Make it clear that this is a medical condition, not a choice nor a mental health condition. Pass laws to require only medical doctors to deal with this condition, and laws to ban the APA, WPATH, or any psychiatric organization from dealing with this condition.
3. Pass laws that benefit persons with HBS and other intersex conditions that do not address any LGBT issues. When LGBTs see that HBS women are getting their own laws which do not help LGBTs, the LGBTs will publicly show resentment towards HBS victims.
4. Ban recreational crossdressing. Then men won’t have to fear as much about dating men in dresses. Require a prescription to dress as a gender outside a person’s born sex. That way, women with HBS can still get treatment while men pretending to be women with HBS or pretending to be any other type of woman will not be able to legally continue their fraud and deception on society.
5. Teach about HBS in schools, but always in the context of it being a medical condition that mainstream persons may have, and never in an LGBT context.
6. Pass a federal law which recognizes HBS as a separate condition and bans LGBT groups from addressing this condition.
7. Pass a federal law to where anyone with HBS can change their birth certificate as long as they have corrective surgery, are in the process of treatment which will inevitably result in corrective surgery, or have filed a waiver of hardship or medical necessity. When persons with HBS are recognized as their corrected sex in all contexts in all 50 states, then a lot of the discrimination will end.
8. Pass laws which give persons with HBS hate crimes protection which includes punishment for those who refuse to allow HBS persons to have their own community.
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To the person above me, a woman with HBS is born with the brain wiring of a female. They were born with male parts they were not supposed to have and always correct that medical flaw, except in cases of poverty or poor health. Women with HBS identify solely and fully as women, nothing else, despite what they wrongly had below. Think of women with HBS was women who correct their bodies to become fully female below, not as men who “become” women – something that is not possible.